mess around

mess around

1. To tinker or fiddle with something. Hey, don't mess around with the thermostat—it needs to stay at 68 degrees. Grandpa's still messing around with that old radio, but I doubt he'll get it to work again.
2. To test or use something in order to learn more about it. I'm messing around with a different platform for my blog, and I can't decide if I like it or not.
3. To engage in aimless recreation or frivolous time-wasting; to fool around. Quit messing around and work on your book report already, Scotty!
4. To tease or play a prank on one, often by trying to get them to believe something that is not true. Come on, stop messing around. There's no such thing as ghosts.
5. To joke about something. Often used in the negative to indicate absolute seriousness. Oh, come on, Tina, we're just messing around. We didn't mean it. You guys, Mom is not messing around. She said she would ground us for a month if she caught us again.
6. To engage in casual sex acts with someone. Betsy and I are just messing around, which is great because I don't want a serious relationship anyway.
See also: around, mess
Farlex Dictionary of Idioms.

mess around

 (with something) and mess about (with something); monkey around (with something)
1. to play with or fiddle with something idly and with no good purpose. Don't mess around with the ashtray. You'll break it if you don't stop messing about with it.
2. to experiment with something; to use and learn about something. We had been messing about with some new video techniques when we made our discovery. The people in this lab are messing around with all kinds of polymers.
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mess around

 and mess about 
1. to waste time; to do something ineffectually. Stop messing around and get busy. I wish you wouldn't mess about so much. You waste a lot of time that way.
2. to play [with someone] sexually. Those two have been messing around. Pete was messing around with Maria during the summer.
See also: around, mess
McGraw-Hill Dictionary of American Idioms and Phrasal Verbs.

mess around

v.
1. Slang To waste time: Stop messing around and finish your chores!
2. Slang mess around with To manipulate or work with something without a clear sense of method: I messed around with the TV controls, but the picture still looks too green.
3. Vulgar Slang To engage in casual, often promiscuous sexual activity.
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The American Heritage® Dictionary of Phrasal Verbs.

mess around

verb
See mess around with someone
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mess around mess about

verb
See mess around with something mess about with something
See also: around, mess
McGraw-Hill's Dictionary of American Slang and Colloquial Expressions
See also:
  • find way around
  • around (one's) ears
  • get (someone) around the table
  • get around the table
  • gaze around at (someone or something)
  • fish around
  • feel around
  • feel around (for someone or something)
  • crowd around
  • crowd around (someone or something)
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I'm not saying Ciara won't think she's in love at 13, but I would never leave them in a situation where they had the opportunity to 'mess around'.
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The people are like New Yorkers, they don't mess around and are really cool.
Our forefathers didn't mess around when it came to punishment for wrong-doers.The answer then was to deport them to the colonies.
When Insider asked Jonathan if his superstar buddy was coming he sighed one of those well rehearsed luvvie sighs and said, "You don't mess around, do you?
NAME the artist and song and you could win a prize: The 22nd of loneliness and we've Been through so many thangs I love my man with all honesty But I know he's cheatin' on me I look him in his eyes but all he Tells me is lies to keep me near I'll never leave him down though I might mess around it's only 'Cause I need some affection ohEntries to: John Dingwall, Daily Record, One Central Quay, Glasgow G3 8DA or email j.dingwall @dailyrecord .co.uk Last week Sarah McLaughlin was the first to guess Johnny Cash's Tennessee Stud.
He comes from a hurling background and I don't think they mess around in that.
"Whatever it is, and there's a fear it could be bad news, I won't mess around.
But in Rome, the mantra seems to be: "You can mess around with women, men, boys and girls.
NEW York Attorney General Eliot Spitzer doesn't mess around.