dance card

a dance card

A list that women used to make of the men with whom they intended to dance at a ball, gala, or similar formal dance. A: "I can't remember the name of that charming fellow I danced with at the end of the night." B: "Didn't you write it on your dance card?"
See also: card, dance
Farlex Dictionary of Idioms.

dance card

A list of dance partners. Although the youth of today may find it hard to believe, there was a time when couples that went to a party or a dance danced with other people. This was especially true at proms, cotillions, and balls. In order for a woman, and not just the belle of the ball, to keep track of her partners, she entered their names on a dance card, a small booklet issued by the event's organizers that was attached to the wrist or dress with a thin cord. It was then up to the gentlemen to remember their partners for the evening (men often kept their own lists). As a marginally polite but pointed way to brush someone off, you might smile and say, “I'd love to, but my dance card is filled."
See also: card, dance
Endangered Phrases by Steven D. Price
See also:
  • a dance card
  • stag line
  • dance to
  • dance to (something)
  • put on (one's) dancing shoes
  • dance
  • (would you) care to dance
  • care to dance?
  • bump and grind
  • dance at wedding
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Her dance card is full in the next coming months with upcoming performances in Australia, Spain, the U.S., and Canada, to name a few.
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I definitely do not want to see the Curragh or Doncaster on his dance card. A potential champion should be campaigned like one.
As she filled me in on what was happening next in her life, it became clear that putting down roots there, or anywhere, is not next on her dance card. She is a self-proclaimed unsettled person.
Punch up your dance card while dancing with the stars and fill up on drinks with your ration card while you enjoy the show.
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With meat on my dance card, a $26 tenderloin teriyaki stir fry special was a tempting way to throw in my RDA of vegetables.
Your dance card fills up and your grip on sanity and decorum begins to loosen.
Our dance card is pretty full already for January and February," Teahen told Wines & Vines.