not know whether one is coming or going

not know whether (one) is coming or going

To be in a state of confusion or chaos, especially due to being very busy or overwhelmed. Lisa has been so busy getting everything ready for the party, she doesn't know whether she's coming or going. I have so many appointments today, I don't know whether I'm coming or going anymore.
See also: coming, going, know, not
Farlex Dictionary of Idioms.

not know whether one is coming or going

see under coming or going.
See also: coming, going, know, not, one
The American Heritage® Dictionary of Idioms by Christine Ammer.
See also:
  • not know whether (one) is coming or going
  • not know whether one is coming or going and not know if one is ...
  • not know whether you are coming or going
  • hibernate
  • (as) busy as a hibernating bear
  • busy as a hibernating bear
  • Grand Central Station
  • keeping
  • busy bee
  • a busy bee