try one's patience

try (one's) patience

To frustrate or annoy one by continued unwanted behavior; to test the limits of one's patience. His tangential questions are clearly trying the professor's patience, who asked that all questions be held until the end of the lecture. Will you take the kids to the playground for an hour? They're really trying my patience.
See also: patience, try
Farlex Dictionary of Idioms.

try one's patience

Put one's tolerance to a severe test, cause one to be annoyed, as in Putting these parts together really tries my patience, or Her constant lateness tries our patience. This idiom uses try in the sense of "test," a usage dating from about 1300.
See also: patience, try
The American Heritage® Dictionary of Idioms by Christine Ammer.
See also:
  • try (one's) patience
  • try patience
  • try somebody's patience
  • try the patience of (someone)
  • drive (one) up the wall
  • drive someone up the wall
  • drive up the wall
  • drive/send somebody up the wall
  • drive one out of mind
  • drive somebody out of their mind/wits
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This plant can get out of hand so quickly that it takes over your lawn and your neighbor's lawn too, and the tangle of prickly brambles has other drawbacks that try one's patience.
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