where head is at

where (one's) head is at

colloquial The way in which one is thinking about something or dealing with something emotionally; one's mental or emotional status or condition. I just wish I knew where her head was at in relation to this whole situation, but she won't open up to me about anything. This all so sudden—I need a bit of time to get a sense of where my head is at before I make a decision.
See also: head
Farlex Dictionary of Idioms.

where someone's head is at

Inf. the state of one's mental well-being. As soon as I figure where my head is at, I'll be okay. He doesn't know where his head is at.
See also: head
McGraw-Hill Dictionary of American Idioms and Phrasal Verbs.
See also:
  • (have) got something going (with someone)
  • (one) could use (something)
  • (I) wouldn't (do something) if I were you
  • (one) never would have guessed
  • (one) doesn't give a rip (about something)
  • all right
  • (one) doesn't give a hoot (about something)
  • a/the feel of (something)
  • (one) won't hear of (something)
  • a straw will show which way the wind blows