heap coals of fire on someone's head

heap coals of fire on (one's) head

To make a special effort to induce feelings of guilt or remorse in another person. Why are you citing all these examples of times I wronged you? Why are you heaping coals of fire on my head?
See also: coal, fire, head, heap, of, on
Farlex Dictionary of Idioms.

heap coals of fire on someone's head

go out of your way to cause someone to feel remorse. British
This phrase is of biblical origin: ‘if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head’ (Romans 12:20).
See also: coal, fire, head, heap, of, on
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See also:
  • heap coals of fire on (one's) head
  • say over
  • be on the market
  • why doesn't (one) (do something)
  • why don't you?
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  • it's anybody's/anyone's guess
  • anybody's/anyone's guess
  • be anybody's guess
  • be anybody's/anyone's guess