have someone by the short hairs
have (someone) by the short hairs
To completely control, dominate, or hold power over someone, especially in a difficult or awkward situation. A reference to the hairs on the back of one's neck, though it is often (and incorrectly) assumed that the phrase refers to pubic hairs. Can also be used with the verbs "got" or "catch." After scoring a third goal in the last quarter, the home team really had their opponents by the short hairs. He found out about my painkiller addiction and is using it to blackmail me—he has me by the short hairs now.
See also: by, hair, have, short
Farlex Dictionary of Idioms.
have someone by the short hairs
tv. to have someone in an awkward position; to have dominated someone. (This refers to the shorter pubic hairs. Sometime euphemized to neck hairs.) They’ve got me by the short hairs. There’s nothing I can do.
See also: by, hair, have, short, someone
McGraw-Hill's Dictionary of American Slang and Colloquial Expressions
- by the short hairs
- have (someone) by the short hairs
- get (one) by the short hairs
- get/have somebody by the short hairs
- have (one) by the short and curlies
- have someone by the short and curlies
- a tough spot
- a tight corner
- be in a tough spot
- be in a tight spot