had rather

had rather (do something)

Would prefer to do something; would be more inclined or willing to do something. A less common variant of "would rather (do something)." I had rather not talk to you right now. I had rather go see a movie, to be honest, but we can go dancing if you like.
See also: rather
Farlex Dictionary of Idioms.

had rather

Also, had sooner. Would prefer. For example, I had rather you let me do the driving, or He'd sooner switch than fight. This idiom today is often replaced by would rather. [Late 1500s] Also see just as soon.
See also: rather
The American Heritage® Dictionary of Idioms by Christine Ammer.
See also:
  • had rather (do something)
  • had rather do
  • would rather
  • would rather...
  • rather than
  • walk the line
  • well padded
  • sooner rather than later
  • make a day/night/week of it
  • make a night of it
References in classic literature
He decided that he wasn't in real danger, that he had rather clinched his precautions.