grief
come to grief have an accident; meet with disaster.
2000R. W. HoldenTaunton Cider & Langdons The historian…will see no trace of the battlefield where Charles's grandson, the Duke of Monmouth, came to grief.
give someone grief be a nuisance to someone, especially by being argumentative or hostilely critical. informal
2013CNN Transcripts Of course not every Red Sox player is fuzzy. Koji Uehara wore a beard for years and then shaved it before the season started. No one gives him grief because his relief pitching has been such a huge relief.