see (one) in hell first
To refuse to ever do or agree to something. A: "If you know what's good for you, you'll sign over the deed to your property." B: "I'll see you in hell first!"
see somebody in ˈhell first
(informal) used to emphasize that you have no intention of agreeing to or doing what somebody has suggested: You want me to invite that woman to this house? I’ll see her in hell first.