untogether adjective not in control of your personal condition; unable to get your mind and emotions under control; disorganized UK,1969
Rick was comparatively untogether. He’d talk about doing ideas that would never quite make it. — Nicholas Schaffner, SaucerfulofSecrets:ThePink FloydOdyssey, p. 139, 1991
Dad enjoyed being the most untogether person I knew. — Jack Gantos, WhatWouldJoeyDo?, p. 109, 2002