yoke around (one's) neck

yoke around (one's) neck

An oppressive, debilitating burden. (A "yoke" in this context is a heavy frame or harness usually fitted around the necks of draft animals to pull carts, plows, or other loads.) I wish I had never bought that house. The mortgage on it has turned into a real yoke around my neck. He finally realized that he was in a toxic relationship, and he vowed to free himself from that yoke around his neck.
See also: around, neck, yoke
Farlex Dictionary of Idioms.

yoke around someone's neck

Fig. something that oppresses people; a burden. John's greedy children are a yoke around his neck. The Smiths have a huge mortgage that has become a yoke around their necks.
See also: around, neck, yoke
McGraw-Hill Dictionary of American Idioms and Phrasal Verbs.
See also:
  • yoke around neck
  • a millstone around (one's) neck
  • a millstone around your neck
  • a millstone around/round somebody's neck
  • under the yoke
  • albatross around one's neck, an
  • under the yolk
  • yolk
  • yoke people or things together
  • yoke together