dilemma

Related to dilemma: False dilemma, Moral dilemma

be on the horns of a dilemma

To struggle to choose between two problematic or unappealing options. I'm really on the horns of a dilemma here: do I say no to this great job opportunity, or do I accept it and move away from my family?
See also: dilemma, horn, of, on

on the horns of a dilemma

Struggling to choose between two problematic or unappealing options. I'm really on the horns of a dilemma here—do I say no to this great job opportunity, or do I accept it and move away from my family?
See also: dilemma, horn, of, on

the horns of a dilemma

Two problematic or unappealing options that one must choose between. I'm really on the horns of a dilemma here—do I say no to this great job opportunity, or do I accept it and move away from my family?
See also: dilemma, horn, of
Farlex Dictionary of Idioms.

on the horns of a dilemma

Fig. having to decide between two things, people, etc. Mary found herself on the horns of a dilemma. She didn't know which to choose. I make up my mind easily. I'm not on the horns of a dilemma very often.
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McGraw-Hill Dictionary of American Idioms and Phrasal Verbs.

horns of a dilemma, on the

Faced with two equally undesirable alternatives. For example, I'm on the horns of a dilemma: if I sell the house now I have no place to live, but if I wait I may not get as good a price . This term was first recorded about 1600, but the idea of being caught on either one horn or the other (of an animal) was already expressed in Roman times.
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The American Heritage® Dictionary of Idioms by Christine Ammer.

the horns of a dilemma

If you are on the horns of a dilemma, you have to make a difficult choice between two alternatives. I find myself on the horns of a dilemma — whichever option I take, I'm going to disappoint someone. The police were on the horns of a dilemma. The girl appeared to be telling the truth, but it was her word against that of three officials. Note: In logic, a dilemma is a situation where an argument leads to two choices which are both undesirable. In the Middle Ages, a dilemma was traditionally represented as an animal with two horns such as a bull.
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Collins COBUILD Idioms Dictionary, 3rd ed.

on the horns of a dilemma

faced with a decision involving equally unfavourable alternatives.
A mid 16th-century source described a dilemma as ‘a horned argument’ (after Latin argumentum cornutum ), the idea being that if you avoided one ‘horn’ of the argument you ended up impaled on the other.
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Farlex Partner Idioms Dictionary

(on) the horns of a diˈlemma

(in) a situation in which you must make a choice between things which are equally unpleasant: I’m really on the horns of a dilemma. I need the car but I can’t afford it.
See also: dilemma, horn, of
Farlex Partner Idioms Dictionary

on the horns of a dilemma

Faced with two equally undesirable alternatives.
See also: dilemma, horn, of, on
American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fifth Edition.

horns of a dilemma, on the

Faced with two equally undesirable alternatives. In Greek logic a lemma was a premise, a matter taken for granted in an argument, whereas a dilemma (a double lemma) was an either/or proposition. The Romans called this an argumentum cornutum, or “horned argument,” because one could be caught on either horn. In the sixteenth century Nicholas Udall, translator of Erasmus, turned it into a horned question: “Because that to whether of both partyes a bodye shall make a direct aunswere, he shall renne on the sharpe poyncte of a horne.” Soon thereafter it began to be called “the horns of a dilemma.”
See also: horn, of, on
The Dictionary of Clichés by Christine Ammer
See also:
  • be on the horns of a dilemma
  • the horns of a dilemma
  • horns of a dilemma, on the
  • on the horns of a dilemma
  • in a cleft stick
  • be neither one thing nor the other
  • any port in a storm
  • port
  • the armpit of (some place)
  • the armpit of somewhere
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Transformation may occur dramatically after a pivotal event or experience termed a "disorienting dilemma" (Mezirow, 2000; Mezirow & Associates, 1990) or a gradual process over time (Cranton, 2002; Taylor, 2000).