spar with

spar with (one)

1. Literally, to practice against or train with one, as in boxing. I love sparring with Tom, but I've become too familiar with his personal habits in the ring, so I need to find someone new. Each time we blow the whistle, everyone in the inner circle will move to the left so you can spar with a new opponent.
2. To debate, argue, or quibble with someone (about something). Even though he was an incredibly frustrating guy, I have to admit that I'll miss sparring with him in class each week. The two candidates will spar with one another during a televised debate this coming Saturday.
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Farlex Dictionary of Idioms.

spar with someone

 
1. Lit. to box with someone for practice. The champ needs someone to spar with every day. Ted was sparring with his brother when the phone rang and saved him from further exertion.
2. Fig. to argue or quibble with someone. I think you really enjoy sparring with people just to irritate them. stop sparring with me! I am not here to argue.
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McGraw-Hill Dictionary of American Idioms and Phrasal Verbs.

spar with

Argue or debate with, as in You'd never know they were happily married, because they're constantly sparring with each other . [Early 1600s]
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The American Heritage® Dictionary of Idioms by Christine Ammer.
See also:
  • spar
  • spar with (one)
  • sparring partner
  • a sparring partner
  • literally
  • balance the books
  • bad habits die hard
  • (one) must have killed a Chinaman
  • beat the hell out of
  • beat the tar out of (one)
References in periodicals archive
The 28-year-old Rhodes (23-1-1, 11 KOs) will spar with Pacquiao on Thursday.
"They were looking for some open class girls to go down to Sheffield and spar with the Indian team because the GB boxers are in the test event this week.
"The sparring was dead good for me because my coaches Mick and Paul Stevenson find it hard to get girls to spar with me.
It is not just SPAR customers who have noticed the difference; the improvement has been recognised by the top three wine competitions - Decanter World Wine Awards, IWC (International Wine Challenge), and IWSC (International Wine & Spirit Competition), awarding SPAR with over 70 medals for its wine collection.
It is not just SPAR customers who have noticed the difference; the improvement has been recognised by the top three wine competitions, awarding SPAR with more than 70 medals for its wine collection.