grudge

Related to grudge: hold a grudge

bear a grudge (against someone)

To remain angry with someone about past slights or misdeeds. Although our disagreement happened months ago, Lily still won't talk to me—clearly, she's bearing a grudge. My sister-in-law bore a grudge against me for years after she found out that I said her wedding dress was ugly.
See also: bear, grudge

have a grudge (against one)

To remain angry with one about some past slight or misdeed. Although our disagreement happened months ago, Lily clearly still has a grudge because she won't say a word to me. My sister-in-law had a grudge against me for years after she found out that I said her wedding dress was ugly.
See also: grudge, have

hold a grudge

To harbor persistent and continual resentment or ill feelings toward someone, especially for some slight or wrongdoing they have committed in the past. Johnny has been holding a grudge against me since we were 12 because I embarrassed him in front of a girl he liked. Samantha is just so forgiving—I don't think she's ever held a grudge in her life!
See also: grudge, hold

hold a grudge against (one)

To remain angry with one about past slights or misdeeds. Although our disagreement happened months ago, Lily is clearly still holding a grudge against me. My sister-in-law held a grudge against me for years after she found out that I said her wedding dress was ugly.
See also: grudge, hold

nurse a grudge (against one)

To harbor persistent and continual resentment or ill feelings toward one, especially for some slight or wrongdoing one committed in the past. Johnny has been nursing a grudge against me since we were 12 because I embarrassed him in front of a girl he liked. Samantha is just so forgiving—I don't think she's ever nursed a grudge in her life!
See also: grudge, nurse
Farlex Dictionary of Idioms.

bear a grudge (against someone)

 and have a grudge (against someone); hold a grudge (against someone)
to continue feeling an old resentment for someone; to harbor continual anger for someone. She bears a grudge against the judge who sentenced her. I have a grudge against my landlord for not fixing the leaky faucet.
See also: bear, grudge

hold a grudge

(against someone) Go to bear a grudge (against someone).
See also: grudge, hold

nurse a grudge (against someone)

Fig. to keep resenting and disliking someone over a period of time. (Usually implies that it has been an unreasonably long time.) Sally is still nursing a grudge against Mary. How long can anyone nurse a grudge?
See also: grudge, nurse
McGraw-Hill Dictionary of American Idioms and Phrasal Verbs.

bear a grudge

Also, have or hold a grudge . Maintain resentment or anger against someone for a past offense. For example, They held up my claim for months, but I won't bear a grudge against them, or His grandfather was always one to hold a grudge. [c. 1600]
See also: bear, grudge

nurse a grudge

Bear resentment for a long time, as in We don't know why Karl looks so angry; I think he's nursing a grudge against the family. This expression uses nurse in the sense of "foster a feeling," a usage dating from the mid-1700s.
See also: grudge, nurse
The American Heritage® Dictionary of Idioms by Christine Ammer.
See also:
  • bear a grudge
  • bear a grudge (against someone)
  • hold a grudge against (one)
  • have a grudge (against one)
  • parade of horribles
  • in the doghouse
  • be in the doghouse
  • doghouse
  • bound up with (someone or something)
  • have a hold over
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