go through the wringer

go through the wringer

To be subjected to some ordeal, difficulty, trial, or punishment; to undergo an unpleasant experience. Between my mother's bout with cancer, Jenny losing her job, and the bank threatening to foreclose on the house, our family has really gone through the wringer this year. I really had to go through the wringer with that disciplinary hearing.
See also: go, through, wringer
Farlex Dictionary of Idioms.

go through the wringer

INFORMAL
If you go through the wringer, you experience a very difficult period or situation which makes you ill or unhappy. The last couple of years have been hard for her — she freely admits she has `been through the wringer' in her personal life. Note: You can also say that you are put through the wringer. He was put through the wringer by the tabloids who seemed, for no good reason, to hate him.
See also: go, through, wringer
Collins COBUILD Idioms Dictionary, 3rd ed.

go/put somebody through the ˈwringer

(informal) have, or make somebody have, a difficult or unpleasant experience, or a series of them: He’s been through the wringer lately, what with his divorce, and then losing his job. Those interviewers really put me through the wringer!
In the past, a wringer was a device that squeezed the water out of clothes that had been washed.
See also: go, put, somebody, through, wringer
Farlex Partner Idioms Dictionary
See also:
  • be put through the hoop
  • be put through the mangle
  • be put through the wringer
  • go/put somebody through the wringer
  • mangle
  • be a fate worse than death
  • come to a bad end
  • come to a bad/sticky end
  • get a taste of (one's) own medicine
  • be in for something
References in periodicals archive
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