forgive and forget

forgive and forget

To forgive someone and (attempt to) forget that the wrong they committed ever happened. I really do want to move on, but I just can't forgive and forget that you tried to steal my boyfriend!
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Farlex Dictionary of Idioms.

Forgive and forget.

Prov. You should not only forgive people for hurting you, you should also forget that they ever hurt you. When my sister lost my favorite book, I was angry at her for weeks, but my mother finally convinced me to forgive and forget. Jane: Are you going to invite Sam to your party? Sue: No way. Last year he laughed at my new skirt. Jane: Come on, Sue, forgive and forget.
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McGraw-Hill Dictionary of American Idioms and Phrasal Verbs.

forgive and forget

Both pardon and hold no resentment concerning a past event. For example, After Meg and Mary decided to forgive and forget their differences, they became good friends . This phrase dates from the 1300s and was a proverb by the mid-1500s. For a synonym, see let bygones be bygones.
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The American Heritage® Dictionary of Idioms by Christine Ammer.

forˌgive and forˈget

decide to forget an argument, an insult, etc: Come on, it’s time to forgive and forget. Many of his victims find it impossible to forgive and forget.
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Farlex Partner Idioms Dictionary

forgive and forget

Both pardon and dismiss someone’s mistake, rudeness, or other transgression. This expression has been an English proverb since at least the thirteenth century. William Langland in Piers Ploughman held it up as a form of Christian charity to be practiced by all: “So will Cryst of his curteisye, and men crye hym mercy, bothe forgive and forgeter.” It appears in John Heywood’s 1546 collection of proverbs and was used by Shakespeare in at least four of his plays, including King Lear (4.7): “Pray you now, forget and forgive; I am old and foolish.” It remains current to the present day.
See also: and, forget, forgive
The Dictionary of Clichés by Christine Ammer
See also:
  • forget oneself
  • forget (oneself)
  • clean slate, have a/start with a
  • get (someone or something) out of (one's) mind
  • get out of mind
  • get (someone or something) out of (one's) head
  • freeze (someone or something) in (someone's) memory
  • freeze in memory
  • forget about
  • forget about (someone or something)
References in periodicals archive
And the one I like the most is "some forgive and forget, more forgive and remember, most forgive and remind".
I remember what I should forget
"Nobody trusts Walsh so if you ride with her, no one's gonna trust you," Eddie (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nLrG8C6A1Z8) said to Jamie in the "Forgive and Forget" video posted on YouTube.
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'in interpersonal relations--such as between me and my wife--it's usually best to forgive and forget,' he said.
Balancing between two truths
After viewing all the fabulous foot races in Atlanta the fourth week of July, we were willing to forgive and forget most of the atrocities committed in the name of merchandising, spectacle, exploitation, and Carl Lewis.
The right track..
To those who counsel me to forgive and forget, I suggest they invest in a trip to Washington, D.C., to visit the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum.
Remember, not to forget: reflections
It has taken a Digong Duterte, considered by many a bad boy because of his foul mouth, to tell us to forgive and forget the sins of the Marcoses and allow their deceased patriarch, Ferdinand Marcos, to be buried at Libingan ng mga Bayani.
A bad boy who teaches forgiveness
"Blue Bloods" starring Donnie Wahlberg (Daniel "Danny" Reagan), Tom Selleck (Francis "Frank" Reagan), Will Estes (Jamison "Jamie" Reagan), Bridget Moynahan (Erin Reagan) and Len Cariou (Henry Reagan) will air "Forgive and Forget" (Season 5, episode 2) on Friday, Oct.
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Washington, May 14 ( ANI ): Researchers have said that there may be some truth behind the old saying "forgive and forget."
'Forgive and forget' really works!
India, May 13 -- In view of what is going on in Gujarat where victims have been denied justice for more than 10 years, a debate has started that one should forgive and forget and march forward to engage oneself in economic development which is taking place there.
A Remedy for Justice Denied?
It seems the ex-Beatle is prepared to forgive and forget, despite Heather's attempt to grab pounds 125million of his fortune and drag his name through the mud.
Could you forgive & forget like Macca?
When Lewis B Smedes, American author of The art of forgiving and Forgive and forget, says that a book is the best he has read on forgiveness, it's worth taking note.
Forgiveness: Breaking the Chain of Hate. (Urgent medicine)
THE Catholic Bishop of Motherwell came to Andy Goram's defence and urged fans to "forgive and forget" yesterday.
Bishop goes to keeper's defence
I believe St Paul has an answer to that question when he says,``Love does not hold grudges and will hardly even notice when others do it wrong.''I know a number of people who have said that they keep a running total of all the nasty things people have said or done to them and that they will never forgive and forget. They do notice everything which others have said or done, which they claim has hurt them,intentionally or not!
Thought of the Day
In that moment I, too, was ready to forgive and forget what may have happened between us.
In good heart
The only way to deal with deep pain and resentment, whether far in the past or a present experience, is not to forgive and forget but to remember and repent--or to remember and change.
Reconciliation and transparency