had rather do

had rather (do something)

Would prefer to do something; would be more inclined or willing to do something. A less common variant of "would rather (do something)." I had rather not talk to you right now. I had rather go see a movie, to be honest, but we can go dancing if you like.
See also: rather
Farlex Dictionary of Idioms.

had rather do something

 and had sooner do something
prefer to do something. (The had is usually expressed as the contraction, 'd.) I'd rather go to town than sit here all evening. They'd rather not.
See also: rather
McGraw-Hill Dictionary of American Idioms and Phrasal Verbs.
See also:
  • had rather
  • had rather (do something)
  • would rather
  • would rather...
  • rather than
  • walk the line
  • well padded
  • sooner rather than later
  • make a day/night/week of it
  • make a night of it