call the

call (all) the shots

To dictate how a situation or agenda proceeds, as from a position of authority. My staff has to do what I say because I'm the boss, and I call all the shots here! Mom calls the shots for Thanksgiving dinner, so you better get her approval for any dish you want to bring.
See also: call, shot

call the tune

To dictate how a situation or agenda proceeds, as from a position of authority. The phrase is a shortened version of "Who pays the piper calls the tune," which means that the person who pays for something assumes control over it. My staff has to do what I say because I'm the boss, and I call the tune here! Mom calls the tune for Thanksgiving dinner, so you better get her approval for any dish you want to bring.
See also: call, tune
Farlex Dictionary of Idioms.

call the

shots/tune Informal
To exercise authority; be in charge.
See also: call
American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fifth Edition.
See also:
  • call (all) the shots
  • call all the shots
  • call the shots
  • call the shots/the tune
  • call the tune
  • piper
  • shot caller
  • pull rank
  • pull rank (on one)
  • too many cooks spoil the broth
References in classic literature
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The rum (for so the landlord chose to call the distillation from malt) had basely taken the advantage of the fatigue which the poor woman had undergone, and had made terrible depredations on her noble faculties, at a time when they were very unable to resist the attack.
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