butter up to (one)

butter up to (one)

To charm or be nice to one, as with flattery or other means, especially before delivering bad news or asking for a favor. I tried to butter up to my father by mowing the lawn before I asked to borrow the car. At least butter up to me before you ask for money.
See also: butter, up
Farlex Dictionary of Idioms.
See also:
  • butter up
  • flattery will get you everywhere/nowhere
  • flattery will get you nowhere
  • sweet talk (one) into (doing something)
  • pay court to
  • pay court to (someone)
  • pay court to someone
  • curry favor
  • curry favor with
  • curry favor with (one)