butter up to (one)
butter up to (one)
To charm or be nice to one, as with flattery or other means, especially before delivering bad news or asking for a favor. I tried to butter up to my father by mowing the lawn before I asked to borrow the car. At least butter up to me before you ask for money.
See also: butter, up
Farlex Dictionary of Idioms.
- butter up
- flattery will get you everywhere/nowhere
- flattery will get you nowhere
- sweet talk (one) into (doing something)
- pay court to
- pay court to (someone)
- pay court to someone
- curry favor
- curry favor with
- curry favor with (one)