a/the softly-softly approach

softly-softly approach

An approach that is cautious, tentative, gradual, and careful, especially to an overbearing degree. (Also written "softly, softly.") I just wish his parents didn't always take the softly-softly approach with him. The kid needs to learn how to be a bit more brazen and independent! I think we should use the softly, softly approach at this stage in development.
See also: approach
Farlex Dictionary of Idioms.

a/the softly-ˈsoftly approach

(British English, informal) a/the gentle, patient and careful way of doing something, especially when dealing with people: The police are now trying a more softly-softly approach with football hooligans. OPPOSITE: like a bull in a china shop
See also: approach
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See also:
  • softly-softly
  • wish
  • always be on (one's) guard
  • but then
  • taper off
  • if you can't be good, be careful
  • be careful
  • might
  • old battle-axe
  • battle-ax