you can take/lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink
释义
●you can ˌtake/ˌlead a horse to ˌwater, but you ˌcan’t make it ˈdrink (saying) you can give sb the opportunity to do sth, but you cannot force them to do it if they do not want to牵马河边易，逼它喝水难；你可以给别人机会，但如果他们不愿意干，就不能强迫他们；牛不喝水不能强按头